Commitment
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Updated
Forge and
Way.
Much of Friday was spent on finances. I drove down to the agency and submitted the paperwork for automatic deposit of future paychecks. Before heading home, I stopped by the bank to get some information on our mortgage and equity line-of-credit (LOC). I contacted the main office later to get certain accounts visible on-line as well.
Saturday I spent most of the day with my family. I drove up to the
Inland Empire early morning and arrived at the church a good forty minutes early. I chatted with The Spouse until everyone began to arrive.
As far as I could tell, my nephew's baptism went well. A2 barely made a noise despite teething and suffering a cold. He didn't cry out even when, after falling asleep in the warm church interior, the priest poured water on his head.
And he continued to be quiet at the reception afterwards. Only later, at my sister and brother-in-law's residence, did he cry out (
screamed is the more accurate word) and that was because he was hungry.
I spent a lot of time with my nephew A1 chatting about--of course--cars and motorcycles.
R. was on-call and couldn't attend.
I finally returned home around 1700 and listlessly watched television and napped the rest of the evening.
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NOTE: You may stop reading. The following are my upcoming goals and barely relevant to the above post.
You know the old saying about being at a crossroads in life? I'm at one of those. Again.
Much of it is of my own making. Take working, for example, Unlike most folks who consider their jobs as a constant in their lives, I don't allow myself that luxury as a temp. First I chose if I'm going to take an assignment or place myself on inactive status. If I chose the former, I start looking for an assignment. The year so far has proven to be fruitful and I actually had a choice of several decent paying assignments.
So the first major crossroad is returning to work again. I start the new assignment on Monday and, as usual, am a bit nervous.
Another crossroad is our house. Long-time readers will note about the dishwasher imbroglio back in July and our efforts to not only repair the damage but use the incident as an opportunity to upgrade our house. R. and I had planned to do so sometime in the future but now we're serious. We've been meeting with contractors, checking out home improvement stores, and I've had trouble sleeping at the amount of time everything is going to take even before construction begins (i.e., lining up the contractors, clearing out the house, etc.) Everyone I've spoken with has stated what a nightmare remodeling is which doesn't help but we've committed ourselves to this time-consuming and expensive (think six figures) road.
The other crossroads are of a more personal nature. The first is the major decision to become more active physically. Clothing I had purchased years ago are beginning to tighten in the wrong places. Several folks have remarked that I looked like I was losing weight which actually translates to the loss of my musculature. And, finally, last year's physical confirmed an increase in (bad) cholesterol levels and other biological sigs which is not good given my family history (i.e., heart attacks, diabetes, etc.)
See
Forging the Physique.
I've recommitted myself to my writing and my dream to become a full-time published writer. I've been reading much of late, both good (East of Eden) and "how'd this ever get published?? (Huddle)." Attending author signing at bookstores has added fuel to the fire.
See
Way of the Writer.
And then there's blogging. I'm currently posting something a least in one of my blogs on a daily basis for the last few weeks. My skills are getting sharpened by such daily writing and my Muse is active as I think of things to write.
But, as the cliches' go: the only constant is change and nothing last forever.
I've been reading a lot of posts recently that many bloggers are considering dropping their blogs (see
myRemixWeb;
Tuna Girl; and
Rcktman). This is not the first time I've read such posts and almost ignored the topic after leaving my comments. However, something struck a cord and I'm beginning to wonder about my own blogs and my continuation with
Tribe.net.
I originally started a blog to jot down my daily activities. I noted a long time ago I didn't have the best memory, forgetting what I did the prior day. I was especially bad about remembering the weekends. I also wanted to jot down my progress in my writing and workout efforts. Thus, the original impetus for Words and Weights (the original name.)
My blog has changed since then, the biggestchanges to be splitting into three blogs and posting (near) on a daily basis.
It's at this point I'm at my last major crossroad. With time becoming premium again, I wonder if I want to continue to post daily. Shall I follow most of my fellow bloggers and post only on the weekdays? On a whim? And
if I continue, what shall be the contents? Specifically, I'm debating if I want to continue Beyond the Blog or even images.
I'm still deciding where to go. And there is a deadline (see below).
Countdown: seven days before blog change....
